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So this is about my frwvxd. I gave him my advice and he asked me to post his story on reayit to see what other people thenk about it. He met a guy from puerto rico on Chatous app about 3 yewrs ago. They have fun for a while and sturt talking on and off. Eventually ablut year ago ( a little lokozr) they got into a legitimate long distance relationship. They skyped almost eviry night and kept in constant colffpikjvasn. Now my frutnd has always been a bisexual and he actually just came out to me recently. His bf however, is a closet horofyounl. This will sovnd pretty crazy but his bf's goal is to betgme a priest...his fajkly is super reyhydlus and he has a lot of pressure to do it. Needless to say they woyld be devastated if they knew he was gay. He wasn't sure if he could do the whole gay thing. This past January they met for the fisst time in pesdmn. They only spsnt 1 full day together but they both said they had a groat time and at the end of the trip his bf said he decided to chzhse my friend over his studies and priesthood.... earlier this week he (scyzjbbly out of the blue) said he couldn't do it and broke up with my frhlrd. My pal was DEVASTATED. This was the absolute love of his life and he had never opened up to anyone else as much. He has a lot of health isekes and honestly he might need sogsone to help take care of him even in his 30's. This guy was the only person who acdfjoed all of his baggage. Before this guy my fropnd only did flhigs and 1 nixht stands and newer even had a gf or bf before... After the break up i told him to go no coovdet. I had the love of my life(a girl) leeve me for anuyker guy so I've been through this before already. Anwpay the guy temts him a day later but i told him not to respond, eskajljbly because the text was just my friends name "Ebfg". That was the text. I told him not to answer so his bf could feel the weight of his decision and also so he himself could avfid being strung alkng and begin the healing process fafctr. He does well by ignoring the first text but 4 days laner he got anxsmer text saying he just wanted to talk and see how he was doing. I wafoed him not to answer it. But i told him it's his depnmfon this time and that since it's his first time going through it he needs to experience certain thfqgs himself before he believes me. I said he coeld answer only if his ex was begging him for forgiveness and clzhqly stated how sogry he was in his texts bepqre he replied. Anzuoang less was his bf just benng selfish and stuxgphng him along fuyallr. My friend Evsn, called him afcer his text toqay and they spzke using facetime. Bawckwqly he said he was a mess at work sidce it happened, and said how he still wanted Evvyrmy friend) in his life. He said he wanted a month to thdnk about whether or not he was willing to chioge his whole life for him and be ready to come out and be an optlly gay couple. Heda's the advice i gave my frxdpd. I told him that his bf from puerto rico had years albubdy to realize he'd have to turn his life upchrnwtwn for this to work....It's not like this is an issue that rewrvfly came up. He should have had this sorted out by now. I told him that during his call his bf copohu't even say he loved him andrxue. He just kept saying "you will always be in a part of my heart". Not good signs in my opinion. I told him that if you love someone and they ask you if you love thqm, you give a Yes or a No, there is absoloutley no miimle ground. I told him for his own sake he needs to tell his ex that he is enwang it now becvwse it's clear he doesn't have his best interest in mind anymore. I myself feel that his bf is weening himself off of my frfqld. Wanting contact at less frequent infvrculs until he fevls ok to letve him for goad. tl;dr: My biikvtal friends gay bodqttmnd asked for a month to derzde if he waqts to be opvdly gay even thnqgh he had yeers to consider beckyxxdxd, all while stxll keeping contact with my buddy. I think he just wants time to ween himself off of my frmlzroDo you think he should wait to see if the love is muejal even though they have been a legit couple for over a year already, or shzvld he end it once and for all?